/sigh

Okej, så, jag ville bara få ut det här... Jag känner att jag måste skriva av mig. Om någon av er läser det här, snälla sprid vad jag ska skriva, för att det här är jag så seriöst sjukt trött på.

Okay then, I just wanted to get this off my chest. I feel like I have to write this. If any of you who are reading this feel like I have a point, please spread this, because I'm just so damn sick of this. If I can just reach out to two, even one person with this, I have succeeded.

I'm not talking to just one fandom, but more like to everyone with this. I'm an Exo stan, and I guess that only tells you how fucking much I hear about these kinds of things.

It's about, you guessed it, sasaengs.

As a fan, your only task is to make your idols happy. To make these years they spend as one the best of their life, so they can look back at these years in 40 years (when they're greyhaired and their chest is sagging and their face is full of wrinkles) and only have happy memories of these years. Give them all your love and support, make them feel like they're the most loved person on the planet.

By hurting them so much (psychologically, and sometimes even physically) with your activities, you're not doing it right.

To hurt someone that much emotionally just to fulfill your own needs is incredibly selfish.

If you truly love someone, you would literally do anything to make that person smile.

-Bang Yongguk (BAP)

These activities they're doing are so incredibly selfish and wrong. I'm not going to do a whole list of things sasaengs have done, if you want one, Google is your friend. There are literally hundreds of other sites with sasaeng activities listed. However, I'm going to point out how morally wrong they are.

First of all, why?

Sasaengs are like this because they want to be noticed by their idol (from what I've read at least, I don't have first hand experience on this). To be remembered. So basically, they're using someone to fulfill their own needs.

The literally only comparison I can think of is how someone would bully someone else to make themself feel better, and that is still a pretty weak one. But is that okay to do? No. And sasaeng activity is even worse than that, so how come no one does shit against these "fans"?

Believe me, I have asked myself that for a very long time.

The only reason I can think of to why this isn't being stopped is because it's only the idols that get affected negatively by this. It's not hurting anyone but them, and the companies only see them as sources of money, so why should they get rid of them?

But, why does the Korean police arrest a male minor who photoshopped Suzy's face into a photo of a sex position, when they let female minors grope their idol's bodies? The groping is direct sexual harassment, and the photoshopped picture is just some photoshopped picture on the internet.

The only answer to that I can think of is that it's not fitting for an older male admit to being sexually harassed by a younger girl?

Hey, guess what?

It's still sexual harassment, no matter who gets harassed who.

Sasaengs don't realize they're hurting their idol because they're blinded by their needs to stalk their idols.
This is a plea to sasaengs to stop and for someone who actually has the power to, stop it.